Pre-launch answer desk
Questions are welcome here.
PolyQuesting is being built for people whose relationships, communities, and play do not fit one default shape. Here are the short answers to the questions we hear most.
Seven honest answers. Start with the one that sounds like you.
The short version
Start wherever you are.
Open a question to get the context, then follow the next step that feels useful.
What is PolyQuesting?
PolyQuesting is a home for people building relationships, community, and play outside the default. It brings compatibility quizzes, community profiles and groups, polycule tools, messaging, and tabletop tools into one place to explore. Start with the Poly Structure Quiz to find your first thread.
Who is PolyQuesting for?
It is for polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous people, including solo-poly people, relationship-anarchist people, and metamour-connected people. It is also for anyone who wants more thoughtful tools for talking about how they connect. Explore your own relationship shape with the Poly Structure Quiz.
Are monogamous, questioning, curious, or currently-unpartnered people welcome?
Yes. You can be monogamous, questioning, curious, or currently-unpartnered and still have a place here; you do not need a settled label or an active polycule to explore. PolyQuesting is not a general-purpose monogamy app, but its polyamory, ENM, and relationship-curious community welcomes people at many starting points. Take the quiz as an exploration, not a declaration.
What does the nine-question Poly Structure Quiz measure?
The nine-question quiz reflects how five archetypes show up in your answers: Hierarchical Poly, Kitchen Table Poly, Parallel Poly, Solo Poly, and Relationship Anarchy. It is an invitation to explore, not a diagnosis or a prescription, and it does not require you to claim a label. See what your answers bring into focus.
Do I need a partner or an existing polycule to take the quiz?
No. The quiz starts with your own instincts, preferences, and hopes, so it works whether you are partnered, building a polycule, solo, or simply curious. Take it from your own point of view—no partner required.
What will the VTT support at launch?
The planned launch includes a shared browser room for up to 20 players, invite-link lobbies, maps, server-authoritative dice, video, and character sheets. Join the VTT waitlist if you want the first launch news.
How does PolyQuesting handle my data?
PolyQuesting does not sell your personal data. We share information when you choose to make a profile public or share results, with service providers needed to run requested features, or when the law requires it. You have in-app controls to download or delete account data, while local storage keeps essential session and consent preferences; analytics are anonymized and consent-based. Read the full Privacy Policy for the details, then take the Poly Structure Quiz to explore at your own pace.
Keep exploring on your terms.
Find a little more language for your relationship shape, or tell us you want a seat at the first shared table.